What Is Rule 62? (And Why It Might Save Your Sobriety)
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If you've spent any time in the rooms, you've probably heard someone invoke Rule 62 at exactly the right moment — usually when someone (maybe you) was taking themselves way too seriously.
But if you're new, or you've just never asked, here's the deal.
The Origin of Rule 62
Rule 62 comes from AA tradition. The story goes that a group of early AA members were convinced they had figured out the perfect way to run a recovery community. They wrote up an exhaustive set of 61 rules to govern their operation — a rulebook so thorough, so airtight, that nothing could possibly go wrong.
It all fell apart anyway.
When they reported back to AA's co-founders, Bill W. included just one rule in response:
Rule 62: Don't take yourself too damn seriously.
That's it. That's the whole rule.
Why It Still Hits
Recovery is hard. Anyone who's been through it knows that. But there's a particular kind of suffering that comes from white-knuckling your way through sobriety with a clenched jaw and zero sense of humor about yourself.
Rule 62 is the antidote. It's permission to laugh — at the absurdity of addiction, at the chaos of early recovery, at the version of yourself who thought 61 rules was a reasonable idea.
It doesn't mean you don't take your sobriety seriously. It means you don't confuse your sobriety with your ego.
Rule 62 in Real Life
Some practical applications:
- When you share something vulnerable in a meeting and immediately want to disappear — Rule 62.
- When you've been sober 90 days and you're already giving advice like you wrote the Big Book — Rule 62.
- When you're in a resentment spiral over something your coworker said three weeks ago — Rule 62.
- When you catch yourself being the most intense person in a room full of people in recovery — definitely Rule 62.
Wearing It Like a Badge
At Amends Apparel Co, Rule 62 isn't just a saying — it's a vibe. Recovery doesn't have to be grim. The people who make it tend to be the ones who can laugh at themselves, find community in the absurdity, and show up anyway.
That's what the brand is built on. Apparel for people who are doing the work and keeping their sense of humor intact.
Because if you can't laugh at yourself, you're going to have a very long sobriety.
Browse the Amends Apparel Co collection — for people who take their recovery seriously, but not themselves.